It’s a gray day, with lots of mud created by the snow melt. Seems appropriate for a bit of reflection.
So many of us lead ridiculously busy lives, barely having any time to just sit and think. What happened to those long summer breaks from school where it seemed like summer would go on forever? You could just stare up at the blue summer sky and daydream about the future. We need those moments.
Sometimes people get stuck in a rut. Many of us go through the motions, doing what we think is the “right” thing to do: go to college, get a corporate job, work the 9-5 (really, more like 8 to 6 or more for many), buy a house and cars, contribute to your 401(k). You do it not because it’s what makes you want to get out of bed in the morning, but because it’s what society says you should be doing. You work long hours, spend little time with those you care about, let yourself get out of shape, eat unhealthy meals at your desk or on the road, and collect your paychecks. You probably don’t or won’t take much in the way of vacation because work is ever-present – you have to check your email on vacation or deal with a thousand messages in your inbox when you get back. Maybe the office even calls you when you’re on vacation. So much for boundaries.
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